The Question That Separates Average From Elite

By Rich Galgano

January 9, 2026

If you want to win consistently, you need to start asking a better question.


What is really happening here, right now,

and how do I move this individual or group toward the outcome I want?


That question sounds simple. It is not.


It forces you to stop performing and start observing.

It pulls you out of habit and into judgment.

It shifts your attention away from what you planned to say and toward what is actually unfolding.


That single question changes how you operate because it anchors you in reality instead of preference.


Most people never ask it.


Why This Question Matters

Most people are running scripts.


They are waiting for their turn to talk.

They are listening just enough to respond.

They are mentally rehearsing instead of actually seeing.



They confuse familiarity with competence.

They confuse preparation with awareness.


That question separates:

  • Script readers from operators
  • Talkers from thinkers
  • Average performers from elite professionals


The difference is not effort.


Most people are trying hard.

They are busy.

They are active.


But effort applied without awareness produces inconsistent results. Activity alone does not create leverage.


Seeing What is Actually Happening

When you ask what is really happening, you stop dealing in assumptions.


You begin to notice:

  • What people respond to emotionally, not just verbally
  • Where hesitation appears and why
  • Where alignment exists but has not been acknowledged
  • Who influences the room and who actually decides


You stop guessing about intent and start reading behavior.


This is where judgment begins.


You are no longer reacting to surface-level conversation.

You are tracking movement beneath it.


That is where leverage lives.


Why Most People Miss It

Most people miss what is happening because they are untrained.


They are taught to speak, not to see.
They are rewarded for activity, not awareness.
They are measured on output, not judgment.


So they default to:

  • Energy
  • Pressure
  • Clever lines


Those feel like action. They feel productive.



But they are substitutes for judgment.


What Actually Drives Outcomes

Outcomes are not driven by:

  • Energy
  • Pressure
  • Clever lines


Those tools only work when the situation already supports them.


What actually drives outcomes is:

  • Thinking
  • Awareness
  • Execution


Thinking clarifies the situation.

Awareness reveals leverage.

Execution applies the right move at the right time.


Remove any one of those and results degrade fast.


Execution without thinking is reckless.

Thinking without awareness is abstract.

Awareness without execution goes nowhere.


Elite performance comes from integrating all three in real time.


Code Yellow

Code Yellow is the discipline of staying present under pressure.


You are alert without being reactive.

Focused without being rushed.

Decisive without being reckless.


You are not guessing.

You are not forcing.

You are not chasing momentum that does not exist.


You are operating from what is real.


That is how consistent wins are built.

Not through intensity.

Not through noise.

But through judgment applied moment by moment.



The question does not make you elite by itself.


But refusing to ask it guarantees that you never will be.


That is Code Yellow.


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